My main gig now: letting go of the whole idea of the separate self (what was I thinking??) and evolving into identity with something bigger.  This is hard work, folks.      
I've lived long enough to have mostly given up self-criticism and gained perhaps a few insights to share.  
Most significant recent growth spurt: seeing it's possible to Be Love Now by letting go of yesterday's resentments and memories. 
What a way to live : ))